The life, times, and travels of the Graves Family (Pete, Anna and Samuel). This is a keep in touch for friends, as we've left some great mates in NZ while coming back to the UK to visit others.
Thursday, April 10, 2008
I need to let everyone know as soon as possible - this is very serious indeed. My good friend Andy Coote (from the Business League) and his wife Angela have co-opted me into putting together a team in the Relay for Life. For this I NEED YOUR HELP! The relay is a 24 hour walk by a team at any pace at all, in this instance round (and round) Penryn Rugby pitch. The date is July 26th and 27th - the last weekend in July.
Now I should also mention that it is in a very good cause: supporting Cancer research in the UK, and therefore saving potentially thousands of lives.
.. Even some very close to us, quite possibly.
...Even me quite possibly, given that I got over Leukaemia 10 years ago - most probably using drugs and techniques developed by Cancer Research in the UK.
So I have every reason to go and walk round that Rugby pitch for as long as it takes.
You however may well not have had Leukaemia or any similar ailments, and good luck to you because you wouldn't want one of those. But we all know that "There by the grace of God go I", and we all share that fear that ourselves or someone close to us will have to deal with the big C at some point in our lives.
So the point of all this of course is come along, walk around that Rugby pitch with us - and contrary to the slightly sombre note that I seem to have struck I feel it will be a cracking good day. Apart from a beer tent and pasties I am told there will be "a variety of activities" to keep it interesting, and to help the hardy few (me and my "Praetorian guard" I suspect) traipsing through the long hours of the night.
There will be a page on Just Giving .com I think - I must set one up for the team - I'll blog it here to let you know the address. A hardy few have already signed up, we have Jonathan from Arwen design in Truro, Kara from Black Cat PR (plus flat mates), Jason from Well Fit, and a few other volunteers already, after only 2 days of light press-gang activity.
Do contact me via the web site if you're interested, or have a look at http://www.cancerresearchuk.org/relay/ which should tell you everything else you would like to know about the event. At present our team is called the "Falmouth Business League Team", but should other groups, associations want to either join up or create their own teams, they will of course be most welcome. We need 10 to 20 people to make it a viable team, so....
Thursday, April 03, 2008
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Friday, November 23, 2007
Here are a couple of pictures of us wearing silly gear.
The tiger face-paint was part of some activities up at Penryn College, where most of the Mums and children spent a happy morning earlier this month.
The fierce Pirate was for a fancy dress day at school.
The Pumpkin was sam's chosen gear for Halloween, we think mainly because it is Orange. He was even persuaded to wear a hat for once!
Here we see the whole (Adams?) family taking their Halloween gear for a test ride.
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
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Monday, October 15, 2007
This rather late Blog post is mostly just an excuse to show some quite amazing pictures. We were very kindly lent a 6m yacht belonging to my cousin Henry, who has made his home in Milan these last 20 years or so.
The run back up the coast was another unique experience. Along the whole of the seafront of Genoa there is a sea will of about 4miles long, which contains the harbour, the airport, and the whole of the city. Once you go out of one end there's nowhere to come in until you get to the other, running along parallel to the airport runway for the last mile or so. The swell had built up to about 2m during the week, which is quite a bit for a little boat with an outboard motor, but with so little wind we had to keep the sails up to steady the boat a little. Our one attempt at flying the spinnaker ended in a rapid failure with the waves bashing the limp rag of sail alternately between the mast, and a brief filling with air on the other side of the wave. Anyway along the front of Genoa the sea wall acted as a mirror, sending teh swell straight back out in parallel lines against their incoming brothers. With a 2m swell approaching you simultaneously form each side was interesting, and when the two briefly united, the boat was sent skywards with such force that once or twice our stomachs were in our mouths! (Metaphorically speaking, fortunately). For such an inoccuous situation it was actually one of the most uncomfortable rides I have had for a while, and that even includes the Fastnet in an odd kind of way.
Anyway we were soon back in the marina, off to Milan, then London the next day. Paul Richardson my old race mechanic and mate very kindly collecting us from Stanstead, and we were back at our desks in Cornwall and at work before we knew it.
Thursday, August 23, 2007

Monday, July 09, 2007
Well we made it round the course, and sorry for not posting the results for more than a week after the event. Unfortunately we were both so fatigued from our Herculean efforts that we were unable to lift a finger to the computer keyboard before this point to write the results!
Those of you with sartorial leanings will be particularly impressed with the
Leukaemia CARE 'wifebeaters' in which we completed the great event.
We both got round within our target times, I said I'd do it in 44 minutes and then regretted it right up to the event, but got round in 43 minutes 09 seconds, so I'm happy with that. Anna got round in 51 minutes, having expected between 50 and 55. She battled a stitch for the first few kms and then was able to pick up the pace towards the end, apparently. Its worthy of note that the winner got round in 29 minutes 27 seconds, but he is Stefano Baldini, the Olympic marathon gold-medalist so we're not too ashamed of the time difference!
It was quite a blustery morning and not too hot, and the looming rain clouds held off apart from a light drizzle at times. It was good conditions for a run, and we started on Piccadilly at 9.35 am with 20,000 other hopefulls. It was a very good natured crowd, but took Anna and I three minutes 10 seconds just to cross the start line, so thick was the throng. Some must have taken half an hour to get going, as we sneaked up to a relatively good starting position. (We took the time into account already!). The race went along Pall Mall and across Trafalgar Square, down to the river, and along the embankment to close to the tower. A few twists round, and back to Westminster bridge. Over that and double back past Big Ben, then a few more twists before coming out onto the finish near Horseguard's Parade.
Frank Lampard: I was thankful to a tall faller who from the back of the head looked a bit like Frank Lampard (Not sure why I have an idea about what the back of Lamp's head looks like), but he set off at an optimistic pace and I tucked in behind. Anna stayed with us for a while at the start too which kept me honest. Lamps kept darting through gaps and making space, so I followed and rode in his wake for a few kms until he faded, his goose well and truly cooked, and I think I managed to get past.
Exploitation and humiliation: Anna had a similar experience close to the end of the race, when she tucked in behind a statuesque black feller with very broad shoulders but no hair - the perfect running partner in a head-wind. Having availed herself of his aerodynamic hospitality she then darted past just before the end, leaving the poor guy to taste the thrice bitter barbs of humiliation, exploitation and defeat.
Fantastic: In short, we were magnificent, and very happy to make sure that everyone knows it. And so of course were you, our dear friends and readers, who rallied to the cause of the bald, the skinny and the yellow, and chipped in such a generous sum for Leukaemia CARE in support of the run.
Musings on Mammon, Philanthropy and the Pearly Gates: If like us your Philanthropic impulses are at times - sporadic -? then this will have been a welcome chance to do a little good and put a little back. I think we can all be comforted that by our efforts we have done a little to wedge a toe-nail between the door-jamb and the pearly gates. I'm not sure that we've done enough to guarantee any permanent redemption, but a start is something isn't it, and though we now return to the pursuit of Mammon rather than more benevolent pursuits, please be assured that, should at some time in the future the altruistic impulse return, you our dear friends and readers will be among the first to know!
Drivel: So that's enough of my drivel, spam and pontification - we can put the charity-run chapter to a close here. Please remember that if you haven't chipped in yet there is still time, as the link on the web site www.justgiving.com/gravesie and www.justgiving.com/barrington remain open for some time.
Lunch: So thanks everyone for getting involved, we have surpassed our initial rather conservative fund-raising target but there's no need to stop there. I have at times been slightly overwhelmed by people's contributions and comments, and particularly from some friends who I haven't seen for far too long, as well as a few who I really only met a few times or only met recently - we are both very grateful for your support. Also thanks to those veterans of the charity fund-raising circuit: Malky, Caitlin and Bella who looked after Sam during the run and took him to see the squirrels in St James' Park, and to Angus, Helen and Robert who allowed us to shower and clean up in their flat, and then fed us a delicious lunch afterwards.
Congratulations! And even more congratulations to Helen and Angus, who gave birth to a little girl, it seems within minutes of our departure after lunch. Well done Helen, and welcome to little Alexandra!
The race wasn't on the Mall, and didn't appear to have many two year-olds in it.
Friday, June 29, 2007
This afternoon we are off to London for the big 10k run at the weekend, and are over the moon with the support that everyone has given Leukaemia CARE for the race. We plan to post our times and other information here on the blog next week, as well as hopefully having some photographs to show for our efforts.
The big thing to remember is that YOU CAN STILL SPONSOR US even now, even after the event, so if you haven't got a round to it yet, it doesn't matter!
But a huge thanks to everyone that has contributed already, we've nearly got to £800 between us at the moment, and hope to do better before the thing is done.
Here's the letter from Leukaemia CARE; I note you can't read it and this blog site won't display it any bigger. Anyway the point is, is says thank you everyone for contributing to a worthwhile cause!
Hope we have good news for you in our post-race posting next week.
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Its hours since I sent an email round to all our friends, as well as some who we've not seen for ages but would love to. And already - thanks so much, people have put their hands up to give us a contribution!
Very impressed you are going to run 10km, its been a few years since I managed to cover that distance, unfortunately I won’t be able to be there in person to throw things at you so was wondering if you could perhaps throw a few things for me… in fact if you could just arrange someone to flail you with a rubber chicken at appropriate times I would be greatful.
Will go on the website now and see if I can manage to donate a bit for you.
Have a good one
Adam from Ceasars Palace
Anna and I put ourselves down to do a 10k race in London a few weeks ago, partly to help us keep fit, and partly as it was on much of the London Marathon course and it looked like fun. When we met 5 years ago we both trained for the Auckland half-marathon, and it was during some of those hyper-competitive training sessions that love blossomed!
At the time I got quite fit (and so was she - phwoarr!) and we made respectable-for first-timer times of 1.31ish on my part and 1.41ish on Anna's. So if you divide 22 km by 2 and alter the numbers a bit for our current level of fitness, I've said I'll do it in 44 minutes. I'm sure this was quite stupid of me as we're really not trained properly yet, and are relying on our general intermittent running / rowing to provide the base level of fitness required. Anna said she'll do it in 50 minutes: we're both highly concerned that we've made ourselves hostages to fortune with these bold and foolish claims.
To get in the run we had to join a charity, selected Leukaemia CARE from the list (for those that haven't already heard it to death I had Leukaemia 10 years ago and miraculously survived - Hurrah for the wonderkid!) [Some info on my old racing web site] So now we get to do the run and have committed to raise at least £150 each, which seems a bit pitiful so I put us down for 500 for starters. Eeek.
You will probably have recieved my emailed attempt at humour by now, begging for support for this fool hardy venture. It happens on Sunday July 1st starting at Picadilly, and takes us along the Embankment to the tower and back, roughly. ( Our thanks to those of you that may already have pointed out that the 1st is a Sunday, and kindly saved us from arriving on the wrong day). The race seems to be frequented by ex and current olympic champions, so be assured that we'll be nowhere near any of them. It was once won by Haile Gebreselassie, say no more.
So for more about the London 10k race please click on this link, and for more about Leukaemia CARE charity and its work please click on this one.
I recently crossed the Channel with John Nicholas and his merry crew on JEBA - a nice new Benetau 40.7. She goes like a dream upwind (being Bruce Farr designed), and is mainly very well sailed by the experienced crew. John and his son Ben are both excellent Tasar sailors (a Tasar being one of the original fast planing dinghies which I think originated in Australia - as did they). John won some world championships I think and Ben is British Champion at the moment.

John's got a good blog going about JEBA's adventures which includes an account of the weekend's trip over to St Helier in Jersey, and shortly thereafter back from whence we came - Lymington.
I was so fried after we returned that I slept in the car in Dorset lay-by until ten the next morning, before rushing back to Cornwall to get on with some work.
Anyway please have a look at John's excellent JEBA blog here: http://jebasailing.wordpress.com/
Sunday, January 21, 2007
Anna joined the Hockey club down here a couple of weeks ago, played for them the first time last week and they won 12-0, with Anna scoring one of the goals.
This week they were off to Dartmouth for her second game, so Sam and I went along to support, and then visit Mary (my sister) and Leon in their new house in Plymouth, stay over, and back home on Sunday via lunch with Anthony (my brother) and wife Lisa, plus Holly and Mary, Sam's cousins.
In the second half Truro really began to get into their stride, scoring two more for a relatively comfortable 3-1 win. Anna was voted 'man of the match' by her team, mainly for her multiple interceptions I thought, she seemed to be always the one turning over the ball from the other team and getting Truro back on to the offensive, and was a regular occupant of the most frenetic part of the action, at either end of the pitch. The Darmouth club very sportingly invited us back for lunch after the game and fed us well with jacket potatoes and chilli-con-carne, and Sam thrilled the girls with his rendition of 'Cmon Twuwo' at the top of his voice - at least once he conquered his initial shyness.
Anyway here is a typical bit of action from the game - Anna in the purple intercepting again: enjoy!
Tuesday, January 09, 2007
I feel its time for another gratuitous 'proud parents' patch, and let you know about Sam's second birthday (7th January 2005!), which occurred on Sunday. We had a real party and Anna made a very popular 'Choo choo train' cake, mainly from chocolate swiss rolls, and with real railway tracks!
We had a get together of family and friends with a great crew of other children, apart from Sam there were cousins Holly and Mary, and Louis, Henry, James, Meg, Basil and Wilf.Holly and Mary were the only two to take up Auntie Mary's beautiful face-painting; Holly's cat-look perfectly camouflaged her against the
sitting-room curtains.Thanks everyone for Sam's lovely presents, he has been spoilt rotten and after this 11 months without presents will take much getting used to!
Our final picture is possibly the ultimate piece of clothing - Yes Sam now has a JCB digger shirt!
This week we were also lucky to catch up with our great friends from New Zealand - Nina (Sam's Godmum) and Jason, their little daughter Gracie, and her father John and partner Kate. Jason has had to fly back to NZ at the weekend leaving Nina and Gracie here for a few more days, but it was great to catch up with them, and we hope we get visits from a few more NZ friends over the coming months.
This article tickled my fancy at lunch today, so much that I thought I'd share it with my friends.
The premise is that Affluenza is a virus which affects most of us in the western world, and leads to most of life's problems, including stress, depression, substance abuse, etc. etc. Please enjoy this entertaining and 'rather too true' article.
The link is here: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/main.jhtml?xml=/health/2007/01/09/haffluenza109.xml
Have a great Tuesday everyone!
Tuesday, January 02, 2007
Arthur, and his wife Trudy (picture below). With Sam being nearly 2 it was a very exciting event. He now owns the largest fleet of trucks, diggers, and trains in Cornwall, including this mammoth digger from Granny, Auntie Lizzy and Richard. With only a few days to go before his birthday Sam now thinks you get presents every day.We had some great walks, including Godrevie Head on Boxing day, where we saw seals, dolphins, and ponies all in a few minutes. Also had lunch at the Pandora, one of Cornwall's oldest water-side pubs, on Christmas Eve; very nice.
Yesterday Sam was very busy feeding Rosie the Jack Russell Terrier her dog biscuits by hand (we always called him 'Dog Boy' when he could bark before he could talk). As he gave Rosie each biscuit he would say "There you go Rosie", and when she had had enough he just started feeing the rest to himself. When his Mum caught him and tried to stop him the rest got stuffed quickly down his throat! I don't know where this reprehensible behaviour can have come from but its certainly nothing to do with his father!

New Year was down in Penryn with Anna's old friend Ben Lumby and a great group of people. We had one of those Murder mystery evenings, and ended up pouring some rather dodgy liqueur down out throats, an regretting it in the traditional fashion yesterday! Anyway all our best wishes to our mates in New Zealand, we hope to talk to you properly soon.
Tuesday, December 12, 2006
We had a great weekend in the north, visiting Anna's brother and his family in Pontefract, Yorkshire for a couple of days. Uncle Dan, Auntie Rachel, Oscar, Jimmy and Sophie (15 / 10 / 6 respectively). We love staying with the Barringtons, partly because Sophie takes complete care of Sam while we are there, allowing Anna and I to relax.
I had some work to do in Doncaster, but we also got a free day to go to the beautiful old city of York, walk around the city walls, ramble up the Shambles, and see the minster. My favourite thing about York is that the Roman Emporer Constantine was actually crowned Emporer there
in about AD 300 and something (They do crown emporers I assume?), as he happened to be there with the Roman Garrison when the last one died. They were usually poisoned by their wives weren't they, it would never catch on in this day and age! Constantine was a very significant Emporer as he was the one who was instrumental in the establishment of Christianity in the Roman Empire, and therefore the whole of the western world.Turns out it was in 306BC, link to Wikipedia here.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Constantine_I_(emperor)
So York is a great old place, and still boasts a fine set of city walls, which are great for a 1 hour walk round the city. Incidentally while on a roll so as to speak, I think the walls were mainly built to keep the scots out, but played an important part in the English Civil war, when Royalist York was beseiged by an army of Parliamentarians and the Scots. I've heard that a bylaw still exists in York making it legal to shoot a Scotsman within the City walls, using a Bow and Arrow.
Anyway the best thing about the trip was that we went up and back on the (Choo Choo) train, much to Sam's delight. He was also given a model of Thomas the Tank Engine by Dan and Rachel for an early Christmas present, which he now keeps with him at all times, including sleeping and at Breakast. Pictures to follow.
Wednesday, November 22, 2006
We have been indulging in all the good english cultural things, cream teas, cup after cup of tea, warm beer (yum), cornish pasties and witnessing the unbelievable amount of hype that is going on for xmas here and it is still only november. A great experience for Sam and I am getting pretty excited about it as well! Even the smallest shops have the full on xmas lights, the nodding santa, the realistic breathing and tail wagging reindeer (quite freaky). Has to be seen to be believed. The local garden centre even had 2 real reindeer and a shetland pony imported for the kick off of santas visits.

It has been surprisingly warm here up to the last couple of days when the cold has kicked in. Susie (my sis) likes to keep me informed about how warm it is in Auckland, thanks for that!
Here are a couple of pictures of us on a walk on the north coast, fabulous scenery and there were some lovely sand beaches (that one is for EJ...!). We met some tiny ponies much to Sam's delight but had to depart when one of the ponies took a fancy to the buggy.
Sam is enjoying being a country boy, helps walk the dog, feed the horse and gets very muddy in the meantime.
I did a dingy race whilst Pete was on a stag weekend (thanks to the lovely baby sitting grandparents) which was a seriously good adrenalin buzz. First time I have raced a dingy and now seriously considering buying one (when the weather gets warmer). We did two races but only one boat finished the second race as the wind really kicked in, we were lying in second place until a slight unanticipated gust (should have been reading the wind better) capsized us. Bit of a shock to my system as I had a wet suit on (everyone has very flash drysuits) and had to go under the boat to sort the centre board out the help turn it back over. I think Pete and I might check out the catarmarans as well and see which is the more exciting before we invest in one.
We are now heading up to London for 3 weeks house sitting for some friends and then back to Cornwall were we will be house sitting for my folks whilst they are in NZ. We are still in the process of setting up the computer business which Pete has been working really hard on.